Archive for April, 2009

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Florida holding $28 million in child support payments, is it yours?

April 20, 2009

Florida’s Department of Revenue is currently sitting on $28 million of paid child support.  The Department of Revenue said the funds have not been distributed because of incorrect information, addresses, etc.  If you are supposed to be receiving child support, but have not received the payments, check with the Department of Revenue to see if they have your money, but are unable to locate you.

Read the full story from the Orlando Sentinel here.

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Domestic Violence Prevention Training for Florida’s Law Enforcement Officers

April 17, 2009

Florida State University’s Institute for Family Violence Studies and Florida’s criminal justice community teamed up to create a training program to reduce the number of officer involved domestic violence incidents.  The course, “Officer-Involved Domestic Violence: A Prevention Curriculum,” is available online at no cost to the officers.  The course, the first of its kind in the United States, can be used as part of their mandatory educational hours to maintain their certification. 

For the complete article, click here.

On a more personal note, as a prior domestic violence victim advocate, I worked on cases wherein the abuser was a law enforcement officer.  Domestic violence cases in particular are problematic for the officers because individuals who have been charged with a domestic violence offense must usually turn over any weapons (including firearms) in their possession.  Obviously, this can be problematic for law enforcement officers (who were usually given a desk job until the case was disposed of).  In my experience, victims of law enforcement abusers were much less likely to partcipate in the prosecution of these charges because the lack of a firearm affected their abusers job or livelihood.  In short, this course which focuses on prevention instead of reaction appears to be a very good way to eliminate this issue before it becomes an issue.

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Pimps use social networking sites to recruit minors for prostitution

April 17, 2009

In the same vein as the sexting article in this bLAWg, pimps are using the social networking sites to befriend and lure minor females into prostitution.  These young women are then rented out on craig’s list or other similar sites.  The girls are also relocated across the country as necessary, beaten and abused in order to force their compliance with their new lifestyle.

For more, click here.

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Effect of deportation on families (and welfare system)

April 17, 2009

The Sun-Sentinel (in Ft. Launderdale, Florida) has a very interesting article discussing the effect that deportation has on Florida’s welfare system.  The article focuses on a father who has been deported after his asylum case was denied (after 16 years), but his wife and children (who are US citizens) remain in Florida, but are required to seek public assistance because of the husband/father’s lost income.  In my area of Northeast Florida, I do not come across many immigration cases that affect my clientele, but thought this was an interesting subject that many of my colleages face on a daily basis.

For the complete article, click here.

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Higher Filing Fees for Divorce, Death, and Probate are being Debated

April 17, 2009

Florida’s House and Senate are toying with ways to make up the deficits created by the decrease in property tax revenue.  Of particular interest to readers of this bLAWg are the fees for Divorce, Death, and Probate.

Divorce
The current filing fee for all divorces is $408 in the Fourth Judicial Circuit.  For couples with assets valued at $50,000 to $250,000, the filing fee would increase to $1,000. Couples with assets of more than $250,000 would pay $2,000.The divorce tax is in the Senate budget but not the House plan. The state is expecting 72,000 divorces next year. (Revenue: $72.6 million).

Death
Both chambers propose a new $20 fee for recording burial rights. People reserving a grace space, underground crypt, mausoleum and the like would be required to register the purchase with the county clerk and submit a $20 payment. (Revenue: indeterminate).

Probate
Filing fees would rise for probate cases, which involve taking guardianship of someone who is elderly or disabled or settling the estate of a deceased person. The current $285 charge would rise on a sliding scale. For cases involving estates valued at $50,000 to $250,000, the filing fee would increase to $1,000; for estates of $250,000 to $1 million, the fee would increase to $2,000; for estates of $1 million or more, the fee would increase to $5,000. (Revenue: $63.5 million).

For the current list of filing fees for the Fourth Judicial Circuit (including Duval, Nassau, and Clay Counties), click here.

For a list of the proposed fee hikes (including just about everything you can think of) which will double or triple in cost, click here.

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Collaborative Divorce Is Not For Everyone

April 17, 2009

Collaborative divorce is a gentler, more efficient, and less adversarial way to negotiate the terms of your divorce settlement (within the limits of the law of course).

 

Goal of Collaborative Divorce

The goal of collaborative divorce is for the divorce to be a win-win situation (if that is at all possible) for both parties.Each party may negotiate for what is most important to them, as opposed to what the State, Judge, or other individual may believe is most important to each party.Collaborative divorce is different from mediation in that mediation is a more adversarial process wherein each party uses bargaining chips to either reach their goal or prevent the other party from receiving what they value most.Collaborative divorce is non (or less) adversarial and, while both parties are feeling the emotional and financial aspects of divorce, the parties are less about blame, guilt, etc., and instead choose to focus on reaching a settlement that is reasonable or acceptable to both parties.

CollaborativeDivorceIs Not For Everyone Because…

While I am a whole-hearted believer in the collaborative divorce process, collaborative divorce is not for everyone.For example, collaborative divorce only works if both attorneys are properly trained in collaborative divorce techniques, if there is no history of domestic violence between the parties, both parties can trust the other party, both parties understand how collaborative divorce works, and each party agrees follow the rules.Further, in a true collaborative divorce, if the parties are unable to reach a settlement in the collaborative process, both parties must retain new attorneys and start over.Their collaborative attorneys cannot represent or serve as a mediator to either party during future divorce proceedings.

Attorney Training
Attorneys who practice collaborative divorce have received training on the collaborative process and the techniques required to help both parties reach a settlement.Usually, a collaborative divorce attorney will not choose to participate in a collaborative divorce if the opposing attorney is not trained in collaborative law/divorce.

Domestic Violence
If there is a history of domestic violence between the parties, collaborative divorce is not appropriate.The collaborative divorce process is based upon an even power distribution between the parties.Domestic violence indicates an unequal bargaining position of one of the parties.Therefore, domestic violence eliminates parties from the collaborative divorce process.

Trust Opposing party
Similar to domestic violence, the parties must trust each other throughout the process.If the parties cannot trust each other, there is unequal bargaining power and the collaborative process is not appropriate.

Understand and Become Dedicated to the Process
Both parties must understand how the entire collaborative law process works from start to finish.Both parties must be dedicated to the process.The collaborative process includes several meetings between the parties and their respective counsel.Each party and their attorney must be dedicated to the process and the meetings.

Follow the rules

If the collaborative divorce fails, then both parties must start over with new attorneys.
One of the biggest “cons” of a true collaborative divorce process, is the fact that if the parties are unable to reach an agreement through the collaborative divorce process, the parties must start over in a standard divorce process.The collaborative attorneys are prohibited from representing either party (or serving as a mediator for the parties) in dissolution proceedings.The reasoning behind this “rule” is that because of the collaborative process, each party and their attorney knows the facts of the case and the particular wants and needs of the opposing party.

The collaborative divorce process can be beneficial to both parties; however, the above listed items must be considered before the process is undertaken to ensure the collaborative process and the collaborative divorce attorney is a good fit for your unique situation.

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Sexting: Is Your Child a Child Pornographer or Sex Offender?

April 17, 2009
             Sexting is the act of text messaging sexual pictures from one individual to another.  The pictures are usually taken with the camera in the child’s cell phone and texted to another.  Today’s teens are doing it in record numbers.  Sexting is part of their generation’s culture.  Teens think sexting is fun and exciting.  Most sexts are minor females sending pictures of their bodies to their boyfriends.  Other sexts include pictures taken of a third party at a pool, locker room, sleepover, etc., and sent to other friends. 
 
            Many times sexts that are initially private between two parties are eventually forwarded to an infinite number of people.  These sexts are forwarded out of curiosity, pride, ridicule, or revenge.  In addition to the humiliation and embarrassment involved, there is a new consequence:  incarceration and sex offender status for the rest of a very long life. 
 
            Sexts by their very definition are pictures including some form of sexual content (often of a nude or nearly nude body or body area).  Further, sexts are most often taken or viewed by minors.  Visual sexual content of a minor is also known as child pornography.  Many states, including Florida, classify sexts as child pornography and therefore, prosecute these crimes as such.  The children participating in sexting are either creating child pornography, are in possession of child pornography, or are distributing child pornography.  If convicted (and minors are being charged and convicted of these crimes), the child can be, and often is, listed on the state’s sex offender registry, right along with the child rapists and other individuals who have committed much more monstrous crimes than sexting. 
 
            Conviction of the above mentioned crimes and the listing the sex offender registry for a young person has devastating consequences, such as social stigma, rejection from college, and the inability to gain or retain a job.  Imagine a precocious thirteen year old who sexts and faces a lifetime of stigma.  The consequences for sexting are dire.  Officials in Vermont and other states are drafting legislation to create diversionary programs (such as education about the risks and consequences of sexting) or downgrading sexting from a felony to a misdemeanor. 
 
            One young man in Florida has not been so lucky.  Phillip Alpert forwarded sexts of his girlfriend of two and one-half years to his friends after a fight between the couple.  He was convicted of sending child pornography and received five years of probation.  He is also on Florida’s sex offender registry. 
 
            A young lady in Ohio suffered another fate.  Jesse Logan committed suicide after the sext she had sent her boyfriend was circulated to hundreds of other children at her local high school and surrounding high schools.  The humiliation and embarrassment where overwhelming and she hung herself in her closet.
 
            Best estimates are that one in five minors are sexting.  If you do not believe your child is sexting, you may want to check their cell phone, or at least talk to them about the moral and legal risks and consequences of sexting. 
 
For more information about how to talk to your child about sexting:

http://www.commonsensemedia.org/talking-about-sexting

 

http://criminal.lawyers.com/juvenile-law/Sexting-Pornography-or-High-Tech-Flirting.html

http://www.earthlinksecurity.com/articles/sexting/index.html

 

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Parent Education and Stabilization Course (aka Child First in Divorce)

April 17, 2009

The State of Florida requires all parties who have children who are divorcing (or if the parties were never married, but wish to establish custody, visitation, and/or child support, or a parenting plan) to attend a state approved Parent Education and Stabilization Course a/k/a Child First in Divorce. This class usually takes place on a Saturday and lasts about 4 hours. The class teaches parents how to adjust to the changes in their family and how to co-parent in a non-adversarial and nurturing way toward the children. This class is required by all judges in the State of Florida. If the class is not completed within 45 days of the service of the Petition, the judge may suspend or deny visitation of the parent who has not completed the class until the class is completed. The class is available online for those parents who do not reside within the State of Florida. The online class must be approved by the State of Florida and is only acceptable if the parent no longer resides in the State of Florida.

In Nassau County, this class is offered by McPherson Training Concepts in Yulee and Clear View Concepts in Fernandina Beach. Clear View Concepts is a new provider who has recently received certification and judicial approval. Both providers charge approximately $45 per person to take the course. Additional courses are available from each provider and may be taken as an option on an individual basis or ordered by the judge hearing the parenting plan case.

Other providers are located in Jacksonville, if those locations are more convenient for you. Click here for a state-wide list of providers, locations, fees, dates, and times.

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Vermont Recognizes Same Sex Marriage

April 7, 2009

This morning, Vermont became the fourth state to recognize same-sex marriage.  Vermont became the first state to grant same-sex marriage legislatively.  The other three states (Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Iowa) permitted same-sex marriage through the judicial process (a judge ruled same-sex marriage was legal). 

Read the full article here:  http://www.law.com/jsp/article.jsp?id=1202429719199&rss=newswire

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Florida Clerks of Courts Sued for Wrongfully Collecting CounterPetition Fee in Dissolution of Marriage Cases

April 3, 2009

Clerks charge a fee when a respondent/counter petitioner files a counter petition in a case in the State of Florida.  However, there was some discrepanacy if the Clerks should charge this fee in dissolution of marriage cases.  Some Clerks stopped charging the fee and some Clerks continued to collect the fee.  Many of those Clerks who continued to collect the fee have either not refunded the fee or are continuing to collect the fee.  These Clerks have now been named Defendants in a lawsuit to prevent the collection of the fee or to force a refund if the fee was wrongfully collected.

Read the full article here:  http://www2.tbo.com/content/2009/mar/31/na-circuit-clerks-sued-over-counter-claim-filing-f/