Posts Tagged ‘lawyer’

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Benefits of Using a Good Divorce Lawyer

October 1, 2008

A good divorce lawyer:

  1. Knows the ins and outs of the legal process and can help you legally claim a right to what’s yours
  2. Advise you of your rights, some of which you probably didn’t even know you had
  3. Will act as an intermediary between you and your spouse (also serving as an emotional buffer as well)
  4. Will monitor the progress of the case and all the minute details involved in managing the negotiations, calendar, property and monetary issues, etc.
  5. Protect your best interests and help you avoid potential landmines placed by the opposing party
  6. Help you negotiate a settlement with your former spouse, if possible
  7. If a negotation can be reached, a lawyer can help you attain a final judgment much sooner than you could attain on your own
  8. By knowing the legal procedure and requirements, a good lawyer can help you avoid potential time delays if you don’t meet all the requirements or have all of your paperwork in order
  9. Make you aware of all your options, even if you want a divorce

Source:  “Why You Need to Use a Good Divorce Lawyer” by Jon Arnold

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10 Signs of a Bad Divorce Lawyer

August 12, 2008

Because I posted “9 Questions to ask the Divorce Lawyer Before You Write the Check,” I thought I would also post this information as a companion piece.

10 Signs of a Bad Divorce Lawyer

Warning Signs

A public defender recently posted on her blog a funny video of a fake divorce lawyer advertisement. I’m not posting the video here because the actor, although funny, is not someone with whom I want to be associated (it’s OK for her to post it, she’s not a divorce lawyer).

The fake ad was meant to be entertaining. Yet it also showcases some of the signs of a bad family lawyer. Below are some signs to watch out for when hiring a family lawyer in Chicago.

You should avoid a family lawyer who:

 

  1. Empathizes too much with your pain. If you have a stomach ache, you don’t want the doctor seeing you identifying with your pain. You want the doctor to be objective and fix your ailment. Same thing goes for lawyers.
  2. Doesn’t listen to you. A good lawyer should have a good understanding of your personality, desires and wishes. This can only be achieved through empathetic listening. 
  3. Promises to avenge. Illinois laws are set up to help both divorcing parties establish themselves after a divorce. There is no place in a Chicago divorce courtroom for vengeance. Your lawyer should tell you this.
  4. Calls your spouse names. It is common – although not recommended – for divorcing couples to call each other names. It is unacceptable, however, for a lawyer to engage in this kind of conduct. Your lawyer should be seeking to help you view your situation objectively. Name-calling is never objective.
  5. Uses inflammatory language. Over the top language does not help resolve conflict. It won’t help you reach a fair outcome in your case. It only makes things worse. When used by a lawyer, inflammatory language also shows a lack of professionalism.
  6. Excessively criticizes other lawyers. In ideal divorces there is a lot of collaboration and trust between the opposing lawyers.  A lawyer who cannot get along with other lawyers could wreak havoc on this balance. Also, these things are usually reciprocal – why don’t other lawyers like your lawyer?
  7. Tells you he’ll “take care” of the divorce for you. There is no divorce lawyer who can “take care” of your case while you sip a martini. Divorce is hard work for everyone involved. There are documents to produce, depositions to attend and court documents to review. Anyone who claims otherwise is not being honest.
  8. Predicts the future. Some parts of a case can be somewhat accurately predicted (i.e., non-custodial parent of 3 will have to pay 32% of their income in child support). Most outcomes are not so clear. In truth, outcomes are often a gamble. A lawyer who tells you they have all the answers may be full of hot air.
  9. Buys your blatant lies. Nobody likes a liar or a cheater. If your divorce lawyer overlooks your bad behavior it is not because they like you. They’ll drop you like a hot potato when you run out of cash.
  10. Does not express his views. It is a lawyer’s job to encourage clients to make the best decisions for their case. This is often in conflict with the path a client feels is best.  A lawyer who does not make his views known might be doing you a great disservice.

Source:  http://www.justdivorceblog.com/2008/07/10-signs-of-a-bad-divorce-lawyer.html